1. Hot Buttered Rum
Treat your guests to a cup of home-style winter comfort with this sweet, buttery drink that you could rename "The Heart Warmer" for your big day. Add 6 ounces of dark rum for every 3 cups of hot water, and whip up a fancy vanilla butter topping with 1 1/2 tablespoons dark brown sugar, 4 tablespoons room-temperature butter, fresh vanilla, mace and cinnamon. Refrigerate the topping before the wedding reception, and let it return to room temperature. Place a dollop in each mug of rum and hot water before serving.